My partner is too shy or inhibited!

1- Will you accept a married partner who is just too shy in bed or too inhibited?

2- whatever goes on between couple is acceptable.

Wrong or right?

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Gosh, what inspired this topic? :smack:

We’ve been getting some…erm…interesting questions and scenarios lately.

Will tell you later. Don’t worry.

Just answer the questions if you can. :slight_smile:

Do I really wanna know? :hmmm:

How would you know till you marry such person

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How would you know?

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He could mean will you "continue" to accept/endure a shy partner.

But then there's no guarantee that the next partner will be a freak in the sack.

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the title says 'my partner..'...so i take it as he's already married...no one jumps at anyone the moment they get married.....it might take some time to sort out things, know eachother and what the other likes (or dislikes), and with time that shyness might lessen....and whatever the case a relationship is much more higher in position and importance to be based on such things.......a healthy relation is based on more than just the physical aspect of it

Okay, based on this I ignored your post which said "Do I really wanna know?".

You obviously wanna know. Nothing wrong with that and I appreciate that. Relax. Your input is very much needed. :)

Will you accept or agree or be satisfied with a married partner too shy or inhibited when you actually have married that person...without knowing he/she is too rigid and inhibited..?

Open for women and men equally.

off course no one does that at that moment. People usually wait till after rukhsati. Wedding hall ke stage pe to dulha jump nahi karya gaa na dulhan pe.

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haa ab wohi na ke ghar jaa kar jab dono saath me ho....kyaa aap bi, baat ke matlab ko thora samja kare

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umm yeah I doubt this would make for good pre-rishta conversation

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My question is more to do with any married bed partners.

Will that be not a boring night to spend with this inhibited or too religious and misguidedly so called religious and shy partner? :frowning:

Let him or her enjoy the night please. More power to him and her… :hehe:

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If I am already married, I will obviously go with it. Hope for them to open up with time and do my best to make them feel comfortable.

If one is more "outgoing" than the other, then it WILL be boring and annoying for the outgoing one.

All I am talking about is to relax and enjoy the intimate time with your legitimate partner.

Just relax. Would you agree or not?

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OK. To put things in to perspective.

I have met with women and men who told that the reason they got divorced is they had incompatibility in their thinkings and needs.

If the woman was kinky, the man was too rigid and according to the rule…my way or the highway attitude!

If the man was looking for sensational and funny acts from her, she says…tauba tauba, sharam karo! or do you think I am a hore? :hayaa:

Kinda like couples trying to shower each other with cold water…!

Good or bad?

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diwana, I gather, with that teddy bear as your avatar, you are the shy partner?

Agree. What other answer were you looking for, Diwana? You could end the marriage for this reason.....but what guarantee is there that the next partner will be different?

I wish. Even with this teddy bear I could never fool anyone in reality. :(

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I know for a fact that I am a corrupting influence, so even if she is, a few months with me and we are all good.