My partner is too shy or inhibited!

[redvelvet]

@diwana

Yes. **Trust me I did not make things up.
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Married people do get to the point of silly routine. And most of them keep denying it…

The reasons could be:

He is more interested in or dreaming of more attracive women at work or

she is just getting too insensitive to his needs or getting too confident that he is just a bald big tummy dude and will not find a “chick” anyway.

Lo and behold! She gets surprised one day.

Really? I did include religion as a factor too. Regardless what the reason is..being too shy and refusing to meet the needs of the partner is not a good idea.

Last paragraph of yours need a little clarification. Don’t want to assume what you meant. Oh I see.

You wanted to blame on the adventurous partner. Fair enough. This is where communication in hidden way works.

P.S. Never tell the partner verbally what you need.

“Trust me?” The issue is not so hard to believe.

And, no, I’m not blaming the adventurous partner. Merely putting forth another perspective.