Re: My parents vs Me
Well guys I think that a lot of girls had the same issue like me having these days. So please suggest me what to do.
The issue is that my parents want me to get married to my cousin (ya typical family, I knw) and I also have a boyfriend.
Now the problem is that my mom knows everything about my bf. He is still a student and my cousin has finished with his studies and has a job.
Now she is kinda blackmailing me emotionally. Keh dekho yeh family keh liye acha hai. N do it for your dad etc
So plz tell me guys keh kya karu, cuz main bhi student hoon n i cnt study with these tension. Main parents ko bhi dukh nahi deh sakti hoon n bf ko bhi nahi chor sakti.
N ya plz serious answers cuz life is not a joke jaise keh kuch log samajte hai.
that is true.. life is not a joke and you shouldn't be treating it like a joke... ur parents are the only well-wishers you have got and they know in and out of you, they have raised you healthy and looked after you all these years... and now when they are making another decision based on their experience and maturity, you the person who have BF ( i don't know if you sleep with him or not) and not seen much in the life, do not know how does the so called GENIUS and SYMPATHETIC world is going to treat you once you are on your own ( that is parents aren't there anymore to look after you) then your this so-called pondi.baaz lover/bf who should be concentrating on his studies wouldn't be there for you...
Analyze the situation...
Why would your parents going to marry you with someone who they know is not good for you??? they are not selling you out? they are not marrying you to 50+ years old guy to settle their debt? they are not forcing you to marry to someone who already have wives?? so whats wrong???
the only problem with him is, he is your cousin, he have completed his study and have got job compare to someone who is in college... well what should i say more
You know your BF for how many days, 1 year , 2 years , 3 years??? and you knew your parents for how many years?? you meet your BF for 1 or 2 or 3 hours a day at max and your live with your parents rest of the time... who knows and understand you better
It may sound offensive, but if you are not sleeping with him and there is no physical relationship like kissing and touching, tell him you have decided that he not going to touch you until he completes his studies and get a decent job... i am sure, he'll move away from you.. that is the love you are preferring our unconditional love of your parents...
