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yeah i do we've been together for three years and i love him....but this is just so scary...i've never had this feeling before....a big commitment....i keep thinking what if things go wrong? what if we fall out? what if this, what if that! Although we are very happy together....
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Hi....read my update...they have agreed a date now for 26th August but i am freaking out! thanks for your advice anyway x
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My sentiments exactly, although i would add one thng, in my opinion although it may not seem like it to you, your in an envious position. Atleast your in a position where everything has worked out like a dream, every one likes each other and all parties get along. I've read many posts on this forum where they've faced all sorts of issues with parents etc, one not liking another, trivial issues etc.
Atleast you will get everything you've dreamed off. Many dont reach this equilibrium with their families.
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Aha!! Nice to know you are getting married on 26th August (Insha Allah).
Wish you all the best. Please post the news at a thread as soon as you get merried. I am sure all the people who replied at this thread will be very happy to read the good news.
Allah ka naam le kar nayee zindagi shuru kijye.
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I think it’s pretty normal to be scared and uncertain, especially since the situation had such an abrupt change. InshAllah you’ll feel more comfortable as the time passes.
Best wishes for you both.
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I am getting married in a month and I freak out every now and then...i think its normal...just go for it and be happy...do istikhaara and pray to Alalh whenever yoo feel that way.
Good luck:)
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thanx guys for all your advice and support...can't believe i got so freaked out...i just wasn't expecting it at all and then BANG it's in a few weeks it's my nikkah. For those of you who are married did you freak out too? like "oH MY GOD" All my life i've wondered about marriage and now the time is here....
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No sparrow its understandable..i mean you want time to prepare and stuff u know? 
Best of luck
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It's like getting into a very hot bath, at first you're too scared too even though you know you want to, but once you're in then it's lovely :D
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^ LOL exactly
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Wow, what a story, I still haven't figured it out yet. But at least it looks like it is going to have a happy ending. Congrats and best of luck. :)
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lol tell me about it! emotional rollercoaster or what!
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yea I had an "oh my gawd" moment....:)
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Yeh i think the reality of getting hitched hits u....i freaked out b4 i got married cos i thought i was too young2get married. However once the actual day arrived i was fine. It was just the stress of everything that got to me.
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Looks like you are your parents' child after all!