Try not to take it personally (i know its hard not to) but since you have mentioned that you married very young, she at 19 might just be using your example to explain that its not something she wants so early on for herself, being ‘free’ to her might mean she is not willing to take on the responsibilities of a marriage just yet like you did. just a difference of opinion I think and not a criticism of you as a mother or a housewife
