Re: My mom keeps putting me in awkward positions…
I don’t want to rent, because I will never see that money again. At least with ejer- or an andelsbolig, I will be an investment. And I can’t believe I’m saying this, but after giving it much thought I think I’ll stay with my parents until I am financially stable enough to buy at least an andelsbolig.
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How many semesters do you have left? 3.
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Are you studying in Cph or outside? Outside.
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Do you still get SU? I’m assuming you get a double clip since you’re a single parent? How much do you have left? Have you considered taking SU lån - it’s the cheapest out there if you need a loan and that could help with the move when you are ready.
I’m not getting any SU right now, I’m still on maternity leave.
- I believe your daughter is still pretty young and you weren’t eligible for maternity leave? Have you signed her up for vuggestue? When is she eligible for a place?
I have signed her up, but no luck so fare.
- Are you officially divorced, I mean is the paper done here? Is your ex paying child support? If you need legal advice look into Københavns Retshjælp, it’s free. They can guide you, if you’re not comfortable with showing up there, feel free to PM me, I’ve relatives who previously worked with family law.
No and No.
I filled for divorce back i march, and when I was at statsforvaltningen at the end of june for a vilkårsforhandling, they told me that the embassy in his country would contact him within 2 month, it’s been 5 months now and only last week did they send the papers from the vilkårsforhandling to get translated into his language.
Statsforvaltningen had decided that he has to pay child support, but he hasn’t and Udbetaling Denmark are trying to get a hold of him. Because they have to make sure that he hasn’t paid me anything, before they start paying me the child support he owes me.
Oh, Thank you, I wasn’t aware of that! I’ll look into it!
- Book an appointment with the kommune - they can help you a lot. With the apartment hunt, job situation, but you’ve to seek out for help yourself. Look up on the internet what you’re entitled to because they probably won’t tell you right away.
I’ve been to my kommune SO many times, they keep saying that unless my divorce is finalised, they can’t help me because “der er gensidig forsørgerpligt” so I should just ask my husband for money if, thats what I need. 