Re: My marriage.....
and yes he called my mom to tell her that his sweet sis has invited him and me for dinner, and i have refused. he didn't call his sis to set boundaries.....he repeatedly told his sis "u have to request her" in a tone which clearly showed his anger for me and put his sis on speaker. he said that would come alone coz "woh tou milna hi nahin chahti he".....and repeated the word request 2-3 times. When i asked him why he had to humiliate me in front of his, he said that his was doing a good thing of calling us and i didnt want to go.
I was shocked how bad he felt when i refused going to his sis' place. He was offended to hear me say "no" for his sister.
n coz i insisted i would not go....he stormed out n yelled for his parents.
whenever i am invited even at my parents' home for a dinner, i never commit before first asking him.