Re: My marriage.....
you have got to be kidding me findgirl
ur MIL cooks all the food. In the monhts you have been married, even though u work, i know, u've only cooked 5 meals.. and ur saying u cant put up with the crap?
those things ur MIL or FIL are saying, are not taane... would u think they were taane if ur own parents said it? Look, i am not even saying that put up with crap in a marriage.. BUT wake up, please..... this is NOTHING. Infact, I think they are being, sweet even. Ur FIL asked u maybe you should take a day off if ur not feeling well.. whats the big deal? ur MIL asked for u to go with her to a dholak party.. why couldnt u? whats the big deal? sorry but none of this makes sense....
And, the thing about eating at less expensive restaurants... come on... if u wanna pay off the huuuge loan ur hubby has (which he aint telling u abuot probably cus he doesnt wanna stress u), maybe u should listen to ur FIL or even... stay at home?
Im not trying to tell u how to run ur life.... but seirously behan jee, u have it easy