Agree..this makes it difficult for people to share their real problems and ask for opinions..since everyone is ready to either blame them or make fun of them..i thought life1 was about sharing your problems/frustrations as the description says but people are here just to have some fun by laughing at others..
OP: do u think your parents would b willing to marry u to your bf if he comes alone and asks for your rishta from them? This situation might arise after u break your engagement and somehow r able to convince your parents(which is often easy)..if ans to this question is no then before talking to your parents or cousin, u should wait until your bf convinces his parents..give it some time inshAllah if its meant to happen then it will happen sooner or later, no matter what..meanwhile complete your studies and pray/ask Allah for help