Gosh, some of the members here are just so damn immature! If you think OP is lying or is being stupid or whatever, then IGNORE HER. But disrespecting anyone like this and making fun of what very well could be a real situation with them, you are not only hurting the other person but more so showing your true self and lack of manners.
loveforlife. you will be in my prayers and iA you will soon find a way out of this problem because you have a good heart and good intentions and Allah will do best for you, Aameen.
You are 22 and you need a whole lot of growing up to do. I don't mean that you shouldn't be in love but you should not be rushing to marry him or anyone.
Hold you grounds and tell him to do so too. Parents will threaten you, emotionally blackmail you but keep clam and focus on you studies/ jobs. Think of this as a test for you relationship, can you guys take the stress and still love each other?
Give it few years and it will be hard but it is the best thing to do.. Both of you need to have a serious talk with your parents and tell them that in 5 years we plan to marry one another and we are not letting anyone else make this decision for us. Let them know you are serious and firm about it.
I m reading how so many of u r telling her that 22 is too young and how she should take it easy but then when a girl is 24/25+ she is considered too old! :halo:
How is twenty two too young and twenty five too old?
I’m curious because if I was to believe you, I’d much rather ask you to call me an uncle then “Exodus, ajee suntaay hain”
I definitely agree with ZK that to the society 22 is not young for a girl and when it's 24+ then they think its way too old. I do not believe on this but we live in this world and our culture won't live a girl happy if she is 24/25+ and not married. To them this is a huge issue and hard to change people thinking on this it's just like trying to melt iron. You can accomplish melting the iron but not in changing thinking of people.
Gosh, some of the members here are just so damn immature! If you think OP is lying or is being stupid or whatever, then IGNORE HER. But disrespecting anyone like this and making fun of what very well could be a real situation with them, you are not only hurting the other person but more so showing your true self and lack of manners.
Agree..this makes it difficult for people to share their real problems and ask for opinions..since everyone is ready to either blame them or make fun of them..i thought life1 was about sharing your problems/frustrations as the description says but people are here just to have some fun by laughing at others..
OP: do u think your parents would b willing to marry u to your bf if he comes alone and asks for your rishta from them? This situation might arise after u break your engagement and somehow r able to convince your parents(which is often easy)..if ans to this question is no then before talking to your parents or cousin, u should wait until your bf convinces his parents..give it some time inshAllah if its meant to happen then it will happen sooner or later, no matter what..meanwhile complete your studies and pray/ask Allah for help
ZK