Okay, I really need your help PLZ!!!
I understand that ALL men stare at women and check them out even if they’re with the most gorgeous woman ever. I’m sure Abhishek Bachan checks out women occasionaly even though he’s married to the most beautiful woman in the world.
But honestly my husband does it ALOT. Whenever we go somewhere, I will catch him looking at almost any young girl who is thin and somewhat pretty…Okay Im not jealous at all, if a really gorgeous woman was walking down the street, I would totally understand if my husband WAS looking at her…however it makes me so mad that he looks at ALL girls…
Whenever we go out, local store, restaurant, he somehow finds that one “pretty” girl in the corner somewhere and keeps glancing at her, and it drives me nuts! I mean, i figure when me and him go out, were so lost in our own talks and our life that we don’t notice…I mean I notice hot guys too, but not notice them right away in a supermarket far away!! Or we go out in a restaurant, he noticed a girl in the far corner and will try to glance at her in a non obvious way, but I know perfectly well what he’s looking at…
I’ve spoken to him, yelled at him, soo many times…whenever I catch him of course his answer is always: “no i wasn’t!” “I was looking at something else” of course he’s not gonna admit checking out the girls…
Everytime I talk to him about it, and I even cry so much in front of him. He promises me that he won’t do it again, but that just means " I won’t do it in a way that I will get caught" and he still continues doing it, but does it in a secret way when he’s sure I’m not looking..
Also, whenever he sees a pretty girl walking this way or something, he starts getting weird, and starts looking in the other direction oddly and behaves weirdly, and its sooo freakin obvious to me! In my head i’m just thinking okay he thought that girl was hot, thats why he’s behaving strangely.
I love my husband, we get along so well, this just really bothers me sooo much! its bothering me to a point where I’m scared to go anywhere with him, because I will have to see him checking out girls, like I said if he randomnly did it, I probably wouldn’t care, but it’s almost every girl…it makes me feel like he’s a jungle ka aadmi who hasn’t seen girls ever! and It makes me feel so insecure…and the girls he checks out aren’t even that hot, they’re just okay looking…it makes me mad that he doesn’t even have class
I’ve talked to him so many times, he knows it hurts me, but he just can’t stop…I know it, I’ve tried ignoring it when going out, I’ve tried changing and just accepting it, but I just can’t, its too hard…I just wanna go out normally and spend time together just the two of us, theres always gonna be people everywhere can’t avoid that.
I don’t think im being jealous, I just don’t like the fact that my husband will think any randomn girl is pretty especially now that were married…whenever we go somewhere I see a pretty girl and I’m like “oh no, don’t turn this way my husband is gonna stare at her” and when she does, sure enough he starts glancing at her, possible checking her out when my back is turned, and starts getting weird…
It hurts so much, I just think about it soo much…I cry when I’m alone..I can’t talk to anyone about this, plz plz help me! Any advice?? dua’s to you guys 