In your current mental state as described in your signature, it will be a waste of time for me to elaborate anything to you.
Wouldn't you rather I forgot?
Madhanee, good to see you at this time. Maybe you can help me with the name of the movie where this very beautiful woman says this to the hero upon his arrival; "Is that a pen in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?"
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Wouldn't you rather I forgot?
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I emailed the above to my Elementary grade English teacher. I eagerly await her response.
Off topic! mad Stickkkkk to the topicccccc plsssss. tankuu blush
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I wrote a thread many moons ago about Shyness in Corner Room, and admitted that I suffer from a form of social phobia.
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I also suffer from extreme shyness and social phobia. Its tough isnt it.:(
Pagli....just wear ur dupatta, keep ur cool, & act normal. If ur bro invited him over, then let his friend be wid him, not u...I'd suggest that under any circumstance, u will feel comfortable having some1 around u like ur mom or sis...that way u dont have 2 worry about da dude asking u something, u can alwayz ask ur younger bro/sis 2 go give it 2 him...!
Or u can just lock urself in a room 4 an entire year.
Munni why are you acting like a sharmeeli dulhan? Hes not your fiance or something. I would only act so shy if he had proposed for me or if I fancied the pants off him. If you're not attracted to him why are you so shy? I think you secretly like him. :p
Munni, watch 'Woh Saat Din'
This is interesting if looked at from a case-study/psych point of view.
Here we have someone saying one thing. (Munni says she is uncomfy with a male houseguest.)
Her actions (to her) suggest one thing. (Munni is not keen on having male guests in the house because it disrupts her routine.)
Yet many others believe another thing despite the claim. (Munni probably likes the guy.)
That her actions are only associated with a particulr phenomenon. (Munni acting weird = Munni must like someone.)
Why must my actions only be associated with liking someone? My family doesnt think so. This is what I dont understand. I would be the same with a 70 year old male houseguest. uffhh
Conclusion: Don't call guppies as key allied witnesses in trials where I (Munni) am the defendant. grin
Munni I can kinda relate to what u r saying. I used to be very shy but I made a very serious effort to overcome my shyness through college and now I am working with guys in office too. Its all in your own control and you can overcome it. Be reserved in your behavior but feeling too shy will be harmful and restrictive for you. Its not good. I know its a celebrated thing in our culture 'mashriqi kurri sharm-o-haya' and all that. Yeah be reserved and shy in your heart, but never coy. Get over this extreme shyness.
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Munni I can kinda relate to what u r saying. I used to be very shy but I am not anymore after having gone through college and now working with guys in office too. Its all in your own control. Be reserved in your behavior but feeling too shy will be harmful and restrictive for you. Its not good. Get over it.
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irem, I've come a long way from what I was before, but still its very challenging and very difficult to explain to others that dont have such issues. I know how my shyness has hindered me throughout my life, so its not something I am unaware of, but working on it is not easy either. It's something I feel I will not really ever be completely rid of.
I posted to gain encouragement/reinforcement and to get ideas on what to do to help make things easier, and I thank everyone for their suggestions. Today I am going to go out and possibly mingle (after a week of hibernation). Will see how it goes. smile
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irem, I've come a long way from what I was before, but still its very challenging and very difficult to explain to others that dont have such issues. I know how my shyness has hindered me throughout my life, so its not something I am unaware of, but working on it is not easy either. It's something I feel I will not really ever be completely rid of.
I posted to gain encouragement/reinforcement and to get ideas on what to do to help make things easier, and I thank everyone for their suggestions. Today I am going to go out and possibly mingle (after a week of hibernation). Will see how it goes. smile
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:) hey i totally get u and can relate Munni
good luck with mingling
Munni ji, ignore, ignore, ignore, ignore...
A few guppies have asked me about an update on the houseguest situation, so thought I'd post here instead of having to tell everyone separately. Not that anyone beyond them are interested to know, and even the ones that asked were probably juss tryin to bug me hehe, but I'll post anyway. grin
Yeah so I didnt see him again for a whole week thanks to hibernating in my room. It's now my private sanctuary. We went to the movies together. The guest insisted on paying or he wasnt gonna watch the movie, so we got a free movie. I was surprised because I'm told they each pay their own way all the time. That was nice of him. I sat next to my brother and I drove so I wouldnt be forced to speak to him. Answered a few of his questions but he seems oblivious to the fact that I hardly talk.
Just today I was in my jammies and guess who walks right by my room door and says "sorry" when realizing my room door was open. mad at self
Then my mom left my room door open and he passed by again and said the same thing!!! I was upset at Ammi for that. Ammi just laughed and said "oops". mad
The situation has not improved, as I was hoping it would. I know its my own fault most probably. I told Ammi again that I am very uncomfy with the guest, she said, "you'll be fine". arrrggg
yer mum is trying to make a love conenction :)
true that Fraudz - aaj kal ki Ammis *uff toba hai * 
awww thats cute
n gals who asked u to flirt wid him …dont listen to em :nono: flirting is haram 
haha
just try to ignore him naa … 
i know its hard when u cant do wat u want in ur own home …!
Munni, I would start charging this dude rental charges for staying there.. :-). Seriously though your Brother seems to be taking some liberty about allowing a non-relative to stay at your house. I wil tell you what one family done in my area, they had recently emigrated from Islamabad to the UK and taken up a medium sized property for the family. It wasn't long before a freind of one of their son's, whose father happened to be some army official requested to be allowed to stay with them for 3 years lol! as he had recently obtained admission at University. The guy came over from Pakistan and stayed with them for several weeks... it wasn't long before their were serious tensions between the family members. It got to a point where the mum and dad were constantly arguing. In the end they phoned the guys father in pakistan and told him that it would be better if he should stay in rental accommodation nearby and they would help him in finding a place. They were ok with that and now the guy has his own place to stay and able to pay his own expenses.
Dil he Pakistani, he is paying an amount for staying in the extension. I think this is one of the reasons my family wants me to accomodate to him, besides the fact that he is my brothers bestfriend. Nobody else seems to be that disturbed about the lack of privacy, only me. I'm the only one who goes around the house in my jammies all day, and likes utmost privacy. I feel I have to restrict myself now that he is here. My dad told me once, "dont act like you normally do infront of strangers." He feels they wouldn't understand the way I am, or wouldnt be so accepting. sigh