We have a house-guest staying with us and attending his medical school classes for the next few months, and it could end up being permanent for the next year or more. He is my brothers friend. Because of his friend staying over, I feel trapped in my own home! He is staying in part of the extension which means that he is sharing the kitchen and dining room. My mother came in my room the day after he arrived and said, “He looks a lot better in person than in the pictures your brother showed you.” I was thinking to myself, why is Mom telling me that when I didn’t even ask about his looks. On top of that, my bhai mentioned to me once that he thought I looked “interesting/nice” in a pic he showed him awhile back. I am starting to think that my family is thinking he might be a potential match or something. Aaahhhhh My brother goes on and on doting about him. Sure, he may be a nice guy but I’ve already told everyone I’m not interested in getting married right now.
I can no longer walk around my house freely because he might be in the vicinity. I wear my PJ’s around the house and to think that I can’t anymore is just the worst. Not even on weekends. cwy And on top of that, I tried talking to him once and I was soooo terribly shy and nervous (since the whole thing my mom mentioned), that I hid behind the kitchen wall partially while talking to him. It was soooo embarrassing. He must have thought I’m a complete dork. Why is this happening to meeeeeeee. I end up locking myself in my room now even after work hours, its just awful. I’m never really myself infront of guests cause I am just too shy most of the time and…and…sigh This just isn’t a good situation. Any advice? Suggestions? Besides stop being a cwy baby? hiding in room
I cannotttttttt flirtttttttttt. I'm too shy to even look at him straight. Oh, its the worst thing I tell you. Just yesterday I was walking around my house with a GIANT Dupata on my head, that went from the front of my knees to the back of my knees. I looked like a ghost in a giant sheet. Then I tried eating like that but it didnt work. Dupatta kept going in my food. cwy Cause I was afraid he might walk in the kitchen/dining room while I was in there. My bhai is nice enuff to warn me just before they reach home, but this is just awfulllllll. cwy
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*haww haiiii
You three! Honestly! blush
I cannotttttttt flirtttttttttt. I'm too shy to even look at him straight. Oh, its the worst thing I tell you. Just yesterday I was walking around my house with a GIANT Dupata on my head, that went from the front of my knees to the back of my knees. I looked like a ghost in a giant sheet. Then I tried eating like that but it didnt work. Dupatta kept going in my food. cwy Cause I was afraid he might walk in the kitchen/dining room while I was in there. My bhai is nice enuff to warn me just before they reach home, but this is just awfulllllll. cwy
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Gosh! You are so cute. I mean really. I feel like marrying you myself. * pls no nasty comments*
Why are ya so shy anyways? U have feelings for him eh.. ? ;-)
Well, you can atleast start talking to him and develop a friendship. That might help ya. If u keep hiding and running away, he might get the wrong idea of u having a thing for him...which I think u have. :-p
P.S: the dupatta bit is so cute.. I am falling short of words.
Chandi, hehe. You're cute. I dunno why I am shy, I just am. And not only that but now I'm becoming paranoid. I'll be sitting in the living room on the couch that has a view of the kitchen door and every few seconds I look towards the door to see if he is coming in. And if I see his head poke in, I go RUNNING to my room. Ammi likes it cause she said it forces me to do a little exercise. uffhhhhooo Itna tension hai, ke mei kya bataoN. sighZ I wannaaaa moveeeeee outtttttttttt.
Nahin, I dont like him like that, weally, I dont. If I did I wouldnt even attempt to go out of my room! EVER! hehe.
maddy, I did talk to my parents. You know the response? "Stop being a baby, and just come out." haw haiii I cant believe they took HIS side!!!! uffh
if I were you, I would go upto him and ask him straight up if he liked me. if he said yes, I would tell him that I didn’t like him and then proceed to throw him out onto the street and keep all his stuff. if he said no, I would still throw him out onto the street and keep all his stuff.
either way, masla khatam. but then again I’m a guy and I really don’t care to marry a guy…
I promiseeeeeeeeeee I dontttttt likeeeeeeeee himmmmmmm likeeeeeee thatttttttttt. Truuuuussssssstttttt mmmeeeeeeeee. As nice as he is, mujey nahin passand. hoonh
Is this how girls behave when they like someone? hawww I didnt know that.
Well I’m like this with any male guest. My friends are telling me to grow up. Why doesnt anyone understand? confused
Munni, tell your mother that you don’t feel comfortable around him. Just be straight with her … and your brother too! That is only if you really don’t fancy your house guest.
That way you’ll get over ur shyness and feel at ‘home’ again :-p
Mard bun Munni!!!