I’m in love with someone who is married 
I actually caught myself flirting with him the other day, and then had to stop myself.
His wife doesn’t know.
He does.
What do I do?
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You identified the problem and you implemented the solution. Keep doing the same I would say.
I'm in love with someone who is married :(
I actually caught myself flirting with him the other day, and then had to stop myself.
His wife doesn't know.
He does.
What do I do?
What do you mean? Are you saying that he KNOWS you're in love with him? So are you in a relationship with him? Or is thinking of starting something.
You did the right thing by stopping yourself, PCG. Cheating is deception because there is lying involved, that's why there is guilt. When something is done with honesty........there is less guilt involved.
In other words.......if this guy has no desire to be with his wife.....if their marriage is beyond repair........then he needs to end it with her BEFORE he starts something with you. That's a more decent way of handling things because there is no deception.
Put yourself in his wife's shoes. What goes around comes around. Don't start anything with this guy. You don't need to be someone's mistress. Don't settle for anyone who won't commit to you........or who doesn't value committment to begin with.
how about staying away? you wouldnt appreciate it if someone did that to your husband. respect their marriage, respect her and keep your distance from him.
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Dear PCG, you know he rejected you so why go on ruining his, his wife's and your own life.
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PCG...you know the answer to this.
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PCG, ur kidding yeah? We all know you're smarter than this...
PCG thats what u need to do
Leave him alone warna uss ki biwi ki bud dua lag jaye ghi tumhe
now we don't want that do we
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***PCG the real question here is where do you see this going ?
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PCG, you're on the right track with not making any advances toward him. MashaAllah, you have a working conscience.......so continue in this direction,
It's one thing if this guy was willing to make an official committment to you. But if you don't see this going anywhere........then save yourself a ton of heartache......and don't pursue him. Don't flirt with him. Avoid him to the best of your ability. Keep yourself occupied with more positive and healthy activities. Seek help through prayer.
Put yourself in his wife's shoes. Don't hurt the woman and don't hurt yourself. Don't allow yourself to stoop to the level of cheating........because you're above this (or you wouldn't have stopped yourself from flirting with him). It is said that the dua of one who has been wronged is guaranteed acceptance by Allah. Another way of reinforcing the concept of what goes around comes around. Continue with your self-control and inshaAllah you'll be rewarded for doing the right thing and will find a guy who deserves you.
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I support paindu!
on a serious note we all have to die one day gurl hv the fear constantly tht if u advance this any further u gona get it BAD by Allah...if u keep thinking abt it ull get scared to do anything rong!
What were you thinking?- OK you are still sane. As long as you had the sense to stop, there’s hope.
- Well, that’s a positive.
- That’s not good. And that’s why you have to nip it in the bud.
- You don’t give any explanations, you don’t think twice, you walk away from the situation like a good girl and get over it.
Remember, if that guy leaves his wife for you, he may leave you for someone else some other day.
With that said, I think you’re smart enough to figure this thing out.
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He's not worth it PCG. If he's flirting with you while being married, he won't have a problem flirting with other women too (regardless of you).
It's wrong ... and you know it. If you were the wife, how would you feel? Steer clear of him for your own sake.
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Um, get married ASAP or move away?
Remove yourself from the situation?
Ignore him?
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It's because all women want married men. We're genetically predisposed to be competitive *****es.
Make your move, and blame Darwin if you get caught.
(Since I'm pretty sure PCG is not an idiot, I assume this thread is a joke in reaction to other silly Life1 threads.)
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I am sorry to hear that PCG. Happens in life..
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ek aur baath... he's not ur honey. Just a fake.
Was he flirting back? uuugh
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where is all the mirch masala? this is supposed to be life1.
you people are so boring
^:hahaha:
I knew PCG you are very smart to do these kind of things.