u r rite that we shud make a decision by listening to the other party as well..but right now we dun have an option and from her views it seems as if she is very unhappy and she desperately wants a strong life partner and she is not getting the one in her fiance...itz not easy to discontinue a relation and imaine how unhappy she wud be that she is thinking to end it despite the fact that her fiance is so loving and caring as she mentioned...complex situation!!!
Yes but please tell me wether you think that its ok to advice her to do this or that but to discontinue a relationship by advicing her online!! i mean its very scary to me.
Ok one on one and in person after hearing her out for hours then u can come to conclusion what advice u can give her but only by few posts on this forum!! not right at all ji.
Yes but please tell me wether you think that its ok to advice her to do this or that but to discontinue a relationship by advicing her online!! i mean its very scary to me.
Ok one on one and in person after hearing her out for hours then u can come to conclusion what advice u can give her but only by few posts on this forum!! not right at all ji.
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no v cant suggest her THE LAST WORD of course...v can just give her a suggestion on how to improve it..but i guess she is offended and wants a final decision to be taken now..thatz wat i felt out of her posts....
but it happens that there is always one thing that we want in our partner and on which v cant compromise(for some itz physical appearance for others something else),may be for SD,security is the need...**
Yes but please tell me wether you think that its ok to advice her to do this or that but to discontinue a relationship by advicing her online!! i mean its very scary to me.
Ok one on one and in person after hearing her out for hours then u can come to conclusion what advice u can give her but only by few posts on this forum!! not right at all ji.
i** tell this to my family that am not satisfied but they dun give this thing any importance..they say after marraige thingz will get different and u'l be happy...hmmm let see..thanx anywayzz..**
move on. he is not for you. if you cant share his problem, find some problem free guy ... if there is any such person .....
I fail to you understand what kind of relationship is this where you have ask him to share his problems. Husband/wife are to share good and bad times. Looks like you are only looking for someone to share good times only :)
I love to hear from my wife if she has to say something ..if she wana share her problem that only means she is trusting me for solution .....
