My Fiance...

[neha]

@happyheart

Fair enough Neha
I like your question i really do and as i said its a fair question.
I think in life there is no such thing as a perfect couple, perfect husband or perfect wife.

U ask me wether i would marry someone who does not have quality i have always whished my partner would/should have.

Well first of all its very innocent, immature and not practical to have that wish. Suppose i DO find that girl with the quality i always wanted. But what about OTHER qualities of my partner? Shouldi neglect that?

You can make life as complicated or as simple as u want my suggestion is to make it easy.
I do not understand if she feels not happy about it then should she not first talk to family ?
Do they not know best to help her out?

I mean gs forum or other forums are good for advice i am not against it but this is important matter and marriage is not a joke in our culture.

I am really shocked by some advice she is getting aspecially about breaking wtih her fiancee.
Do u really think its mature to advice her (wihtout knowing her /him or the whole situation) to break with her fiancee??

I mean ok we listen to her but should we not (in all fairness) also listen to the other party what HE has to say before we have any judgement?!

u r rite that we shud make a decision by listening to the other party as well..but right now we dun have an option and from her views it seems as if she is very unhappy and she desperately wants a strong life partner and she is not getting the one in her fiance…itz not easy to discontinue a relation and imaine how unhappy she wud be that she is thinking to end it despite the fact that her fiance is so loving and caring as she mentioned…complex situation!!!