Re: My Fiance Left me and i am in terrible conditions
Why are you hung up on the negative comments and trying to defend yourself. There is lot of positive feedback in this thread for you , you can concentrate on that and ignore nay sayers.
The kind of English I am seeing from OP will not get her this kind of job which pays this kind of money with an MNC.
MNCs are very particular about mastery of English language. They try their level best to weed out people with poor communications skills in English.
Yes for that you have to have gone to convent schools of Pakistan all your life and then you have to have mastery of English which obviously, as evident from OP’s post , she does not have at all.
Re: My Fiance Left me and i am in terrible conditions
okay
CM SAAb : im a big lit buff , love writing short stories essays, poems etc etc…, did lit in alvls o levls etc , won an international short story competition from 60,000 applicants .BUT i still ryt lyk dz whn i want cuz it’s GUp SHup . not submit ur resume & be judged. DSNT REFLECT MY ABILITY to write properly. lol. I know ppl in NUST doing mba who cant string two sentences together. heck ppl in UFT toronto who couldn’t write one sntence properly.Go figure.
Re: My Fiance Left me and i am in terrible conditions
Why are you hung up on the negative comments and trying to defend yourself. There is lot of positive feedback in this thread for you , you can concentrate on that and ignore nay sayers.
The kind of English I am seeing from OP will not get her this kind of job which pays this kind of money with an MNC.
MNCs are very particular about mastery of English language. They try their level best to weed out people with poor communications skills in English.
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Yes for that you have to have gone to convent schools of Pakistan all your life and then you have to have mastery of English which obviously, as evident from OP's post , she does not have at all**.
Firstly, my English changes as i type on this forum to an official email. 2ndly the job i posted is paying 6 million. 5 times more than 100,000 we r discussing. My uncle teaching in elementary school is making 60k per month. Other one is state bank, i think matric pass or FA making around 100 k.
Re: My Fiance Left me and i am in terrible conditions
Firstly, my English changes as i type on this forum to an official email. 2ndly the job i posted is paying 6 million. 5 times more than 100,000 we r discussing. My uncle teaching in elementary school is making 60k per month. Other one is state bank, i think matric pass or FA making around 100 k.
And your English is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay better than OP. You can qualify for any job. :)
Re: My Fiance Left me and i am in terrible conditions
And your English is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay better than OP. You can qualify for any job. :)
ohh thanku hehe haha ahm ahm :d....So my point was its an invalid point to say someone wont qualify for job coz their post here on GupShup didnt reflect hardcore British English.
Re: My Fiance Left me and i am in terrible conditions
firstly let me clarify few things over here:
1- I haven't paid him for lunches/dinners:i duno if you guys know that when an engagement gets break, all the rings and gold stuff taht has been exchange during that phase are suppose to return ... i clearly mentioned in my initial post that they gifted a gold set to my sister in her wedding as my in laws..... which they are demanding that .... it depends on the family to family and their attitudes; some let it go and some want it back... in that case only the gold ring and all gold set (which was given to my sister ) are the things i agreed to give him back .... Reason is very simple my sister is married and i dun want to harm her in any any case! God forbid ager as ke parents meri married sister ke gahr chale gaye then ... people can go to any extend for their money.
2- I never stated i belong to a poor family! Mashallah i am earning enough to support them i am a degree holder and let me re-explain to you " i am the only earner with five sisters in my family. we are not poor , yeah we belong to middle class stature (by the grace of Allaah)
3- some doubt my qualification ... give me an email address i will mail you my reports and Economic analysis of certain projects for you to judge or may be a scanned copy of my graduation certificate would be enough for you ...
or the person who stated that he belongs to UK and believe i am the highest earning girl in Pakistan ... for god damn sake.. just brush your information with research a business degree holder is getting a starts her/his career with some mutlinational FMCG in pakistan earns 100,000
Unilever pay their Assistant Brand Manager rs. 100,000 ....
another clarification if i belong to middle class how did i afford to have masters degree ...oh man ! people with not so good financial background are good at studies and they know how to maintained thier CPGA to get the Merit scholarship....
Where does it say that you must return everything back that was given by your ex-fiance once engagement breaks? Who made this rule? Any **written rule **written anywhere? Who said you must return all gold sets, rings etc that ex-fiance gave you? Hell no way...if anyone did that to me, cheat on me and black mail me etc and ask for things back esp' what he gave to my sister years back etc...which is so childish mind you - I'd never return anything cos' they don't deserve anything back esp' no forms of communication from me!
That gold set is your sisters that was gifted to her...not yours to pay back to him and not his...and you can't take gifts back unless your an a**hole.
And why do you need to feel you have to prove your qualifications to others by saying you'll scan your certificates? Stop being so easy...like you were with him!
Re: My Fiance Left me and i am in terrible conditions
i am really sorry for posting this.... all of us at some point in time passes through tough situations.... I came here thought just few kind words would boost my morale.
but people are even afraid of giving advises and believe it would be a wastage of their emotional investment ....
it gave me a lesson today....i should lean to Allah... He doesn't gonna ask me what when why and how ...
I am sorry to waste your valuable time... its better if we stop talking about this further ... though i feel very knocked by it and it was just an attempt to re-build my self esteem! just wanted to hear that i am not failed in anyway... i have a right to start a new life !
there are some nice people around who supported me and i am thankful to them!
you knw what we pakistanies dont trust people... i have read so many post regarding this ... people in such situation want to share their situation but i havent seen people of different nationalities react like few members did....
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i like this post very much
Where does it say that you must return everything back that was given by your ex-fiance once engagement breaks? Who made this rule? Any **written rule **written anywhere? Who said you must return all gold sets, rings etc that ex-fiance gave you? Hell no way...if anyone did that to me, cheat on me and black mail me etc and ask for things back esp' what he gave to my sister years back etc...which is so childish mind you - I'd never return anything cos' they don't deserve anything back esp' no forms of communication from me!
That gold set is your sisters that was gifted to her...not yours to pay back to him and not his...and you can't take gifts back unless your an a**hole.
And why do you need to feel you have to prove your qualifications to others by saying you'll scan your certificates? Stop being so easy...like you were with him!
Re: My Fiance Left me and i am in terrible conditions
i am really sorry for posting this.... all of us at some point in time passes through tough situations.... I came here thought just few kind words would boost my morale.
but people are even afraid of giving advises and believe it would be a wastage of their emotional investment ....
it gave me a lesson today....i should lean to Allah... He doesn't gonna ask me what when why and how ...
I am sorry to waste your valuable time... its better if we stop talking about this me further ... though i feel very knocked by it and it was just an attempt to re-build my self esteem! just wanted to hear that i am not failed in anyway... i have a right to start a new life !
there are some nice people around who supported me and i am thankful to them!
you knw what we pakistanies dont trust people... i have read so many post regarding this ... people in such situation want to share their situation but i havent seen people of different nationalities react like few members did....
khair!
Don't be sorry you posted your problems here...I'm really grateful to you. You've taught me a lot believe you me. Firstly that common sence is really not so common and secondly we can all learn from other people's mistakes as we don't live long enough to make them all ourselves. :) :)
Re: My Fiance Left me and i am in terrible conditions
...secondly we can all learn from other people's mistakes as we don't live long enough to make them all ourselves. :) :)
**once the US President, Dwight D. Eisenhower, advised the First Indian Prime Minister, Pandit Jawaharlal Nehru, about the good governance. he said the following:
"those who learn from their own mistakes are SMART people, those who learn from others mistakes are called WISE MEN, and those who neither learn from their own mistakes nor those of others are called FOOLS."****
we all must learn from other people's mistakes. :)**
Re: My Fiance Left me and i am in terrible conditions
If you really were from a poor background, you would understand how large of an amount that was.
I'm starting to think CM is right...
my future sister in law did 2 masters degrees and sent her potential husband 2 lakhs she earned from summer jobs that were supposed to pay her dad's debts, (and they weren't even engaged yet) some people just lose their mind no matter how educated they are.... @CM : i'm french and i write in english, i make mistakes even though i studied in the UK and i never know if i should write finalise or finalize, color or colour.... doesn't make me a troll.
Re: My Fiance Left me and i am in terrible conditions
dont worry it was just engagement thats y engagement is to make ur decisions right that do u really want what u r going to do in future and remember when we have bad time in life go and seek help from Allah , HE is the one who will listen to us and would taunt back. InshAllah u will get overit start doing something so u can occupy ur mind in someother stuff .
