I am erasing it .. coz people wouldnt help me recover… they can only laugh at me and made me feel why am i alive!
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STOP GIVING HIM MONEY!
He doesn't deserve a damn rupee. Why in the world would you do that anyway??!?!??!!!!
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because i dont want that when Allah will see our case... i dont want any Haram thing on me or my family ... i want a justice ... i need him to give me peace and control ..
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Why are you even bothering with him ? bhar main dalo usko and move on with your life. and really are you for real ? why are you giving him money ? tell him that u r not going to give him a single rupee he can do whatever he want , he can even go a file a case against u if he want. I don't believe a girl can be this naive . Wake up and get some self respect , start respecting yourself and your family ....no body deserves to go through all this .
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Why the hell are you giving him money?
And stop begging him and his family for anything. Don't you have any dignity? You don't "need him to give you peace and control." No human, and certainly no human that has abandoned you, should have that kind of power over you. And it is up to YOU to decide that.
For heaven's sake.
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one facepalm isn’t even enough…
Re: My Fiance Left me and i am in terrible conditions
i am trying harder.... but his word... that i eat Haram is all in my ears.... i duno why this happen to me .. 6 years i have been loyal... i helped him at very very tough phases of his life ...... 6 years i have no friends except him .... he was very very nice to me ... deeply in love with me ....
when i heard he got engaged second time ... i was almost dead.....
i have no friends.... when i go for counselling they all are ... oh come on it happens.... move on! and when guys get to know they start hitting on me ....
i just hope Allah send some angle who can hold my hand ... and take me out of this tunnel... i can see light in there...
Please Pray for me!
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Sorry to hear about the situation you mentioned .. I can totally understand how it feels when a person you love leave and hurt you.. Do not give him a single penny from now ! and yes Allah DO justice, you just have to keep your faith on him..Allah will help you ! He does not want us to be pain, time will heal all the wounds of you InshAllah !! My prayers are with you !!
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Ok how about this.
You're nto eating haram.
Is that good enough? For the love of God....stop giving him a damn penny.
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I will try not to ..but in case i am sure his parents will come to our place and will bug my parents... i have five sister... one is engaged and one is married... i cant risk their lives because of the problems in my life....
i am not sure whether i will get married or not.... but i care about their lives
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Forget him. He is not even worth your thoughts. Let alone any money.
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Why do you think that you will not get married, life is not end here.. You deserve someone better than him .. and let him do what he want ... but dont give him money !
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i am trying harder.... but his word... that i eat Haram is all in my ears.... i duno why this happen to me .. 6 years i have been loyal... i helped him at very very tough phases of his life ...... 6 years i have no friends except him .... he was very very nice to me ... deeply in love with me ....
when i heard he got engaged second time ... i was almost dead.....
i have no friends.... when i go for counselling they all are ... oh come on it happens.... move on! and when guys get to know they start hitting on me ....
i just hope Allah send some angle who can hold my hand ... and take me out of this tunnel... i can see light in there...
Please Pray for me!
What Sara said you are not eating haram !
and it's a matter of time only that you will be through this painful and torturous phase . Leave everything on Allah and have faith that He will do justice and move on with your life. You do not have any other option than to move on. Think it that way that Thank God you did not end up marrying him , right now you have lost 6 years with him imagine loosing and wasting your whole life time with someone like him. For his second fiance I honestly feel sorry for her and pray that May Allah do whatever is good for her. You thank Allah that you are over with him , what he did with you now was unpredictable for you and no body wants to spend his/her life with an unpredictable and selfish person , you don't know what such a person may end up doing with you.
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I know it's hard to step out of a situation and see that it is not all there is to you and your life, BUT YOU HAVE TO DO IT. It will take a few months for you to get over him. But you WILL get over him.
You need to have someone else to live for, and that should be YOURSELF and people who support you and help you to be a better person. A person who does not appreciate you is not worth wasting your time and energy upon.
Count yourself lucky for having gotten rid of him before you were married.
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Why you took loan from him for your sis marriage. I think you should stop giving him amount and get out of depression.
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At Diamond,
Please dont pray for her fiance... she knew everything about us... like his engagement ... even then she tried to convince him to leave him and get involve with her... i duno ... i dun want to ill wish for them... but i cant stop cursing them...... i am in a situation where i am confuse ...
when i curse them .. i feel like Allah saying that you should have forgive him...
main Allah ko naraz nahi karna chahti ... but i cant cant forgive hhim , or her ... i AM not An angel .. i am an human and i have feelings ... i cant forgive him ever....
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@ sara ... i didnt took any loan... he was my fiance ... and thier family gifted a set as being my inlaws.....
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You keep saying that you think Allah swt will be angry at you. Why? Is there something else to the story that you didn't mention?
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At Diamond,
Please dont pray for her fiance... she knew everything about us... like his engagement ... even then she tried to convince him to leave him and get involve with her... i duno ... i dun want to ill wish for them... but i cant stop cursing them...... i am in a situation where i am confuse ...
when i curse them .. i feel like Allah saying that you should have forgive him...
main Allah ko naraz nahi karna chahti ... but i cant cant forgive hhim , or her ... i AM not An angel .. i am an human and i have feelings ... i cant forgive him ever....
don't forgive them as I said leave the matter on Allah trust me He will do justice to you .
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no .. there isnt.. i am kinda religious in NAture.... and a bit sensitive.... really sensitive... i dont hurt people because i know god lives in peoples heart .... i cant see people crying ....and believe thats what i am paying for....
people keep saying me to become a bit selfish ... but thats what my nature is ....
per there is a stronger aspect .... He takes care of me.... i know its hurting me like hell... but Allah saved me from being physically involved...
but he couldnt save me from emotionally involve.... since he was in UAE there cant be any physically involvement ... but what about the emotional attachement i had... or i should say i have ...