Re: My Fiance Left me and i am in terrible conditions
psyah bhai jaan i understand waht you’re saying but I respectfully disagree… i personally would not retaliate…why waste your time emotions and energy on retaliation it doesnt help cleanse ur own soul…as for this guy he will get whats coming to him in the form of divine justice… would it not be better to pray for him and oneself instead? I dunno I guess I have a different way of dealing with things… ive tried both ways and I just found that its better for your own emotional health to forgive the person woh wronged you… and let go… and in fact even go one step beyond and pray for Allah to forgive the person who wronged you, grant him/her happiness and guide him/her on the right path aur uss insaan k saath saath guide you on the right path, forgive ur sins, and grant you happiness too and in addition ask Him to take you in his protection … there is a really strange kind of peace u find when u pray for the person who wronged you and u mention them in ur prayers before you mention urself… it’s amazingly healing…whereas retaliation is not