My Fiance Left me and i am in terrible conditions

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Re: My Fiance Left me and i am in terrible conditions

@Ani85

Dear All Friends,

i know the subject might seems to you very fimiliar , he proposed me 6 years ago … i accepted it... he then moved to UAE for job, although his family were not financially strong but i kept motivating him that you can do it … i respected his parents by my heart … i loved him by my heart… it was with the consent of both families … he was very nice to me through out the period… although there were fights … he broke up thrice with me … but came back…

within a month i recieved a mail … an excel sheet … where are certain calculations in that sheet … for example laptop giften total cost 100,000 , gold gifted on your sister marriage 200,000 … total dinners and lunches with you 50,000… etc ect… total amount 600,000 to be deposited in my account …

i was abacked … i called him .. i said its gift … i cant ask my married sister that what ever my fiances family has given you plz return back, I Cant

i started putting 50K since 2 months in his account … yesterday i deposited then he called me that why 50K only i need the whole amount in altogether … i got angry and said … main yeh bhi nahi de rahi … to he said " TUM LOG HE HARAM KHANE WALE HOOO .. JAON KAHIN JA KE MAR JAOON"

I am in pain … i am the only person who is earning in my family… i cant concentrate on my work…

i just got to know that he was committed to another girl since a year too and they got engaged yesterday…

can anyone of you elt me know that ALLAH do the justice ??? will he do the justice with me ? if i ill wish them is it bad… will he and her and his family ever realize that doing such thing is not good … let Allah help me ???///

Will Allah Help me ???will he ???

You should make an excel sheet, if you want help i will help you.

Put all the hours you spent with him
Hours you spent talking to him
Hours you were thinkin about him
Hours you spent in hospital with your dad
Hours You spent driving to his home and talking to his dad and mom.
and Hours you spent trying to fix this problem.
If you or your family gifted him or his family anything put that on.

Rougly lets say 2 hrs per day for six years it becomes 2 x 365 x 6 = 4380 hours and thats being generous. You usually spend more than 2 hrs per day.

Now tell him to pay these hours of ur life back. If he cant than charge him 200 rps/hour and thats roughly 860,000.

You should be happy you didnt end up spending your life with such a cheap person who is asking to give you the gifts back.