My fiance is from back home....

[Niksik]

Re: My fiance is from back home…

@mughalprincess9

Confused much. He is from back home.. ehmmm Pakistan. I’m born and bred in the UK. He is my cousin and he is two years younger than me. I’m 20 and he is 18. He is my khalas and chahus son. get the relationship. Anyway… EVERYONE has been wanting us to get married and stuff… i said no first because of the negative stereo typification of boys back home.. the pervy type. But I just came back from pak a month ago and all his fam convinced me to say yes and I have. He is over the moon. He is like obsessed with me. I like him.. but dont love him… I need time. When I was in pak… I was all in the mood and said yes.. but now that I’m back I kind of want to have a choice of saying no.. cos I really did it for my family… I’ve never had a boyfriend or anything… and I don’t like anyone else.. its just that he is not what I wanted… I guess you can say not my type. I don’t wanna hurt his feelings but I dont wanna be with him. my parents love me and would never force me but now that i have said yes it would break their hearts. esp my dads. He is my world and my life! I could never upset him. When i said yes… he cried to my mum and thanked Allah. Should I just go along?

thanks

He’s pretty dramatic for an 18 year old. I understand your sentiments.