Re: my fiance is cheating on me??
omfg! i just read all of this and realized how (sorry to say it so bluntly) stupid people are on gs. how can anyone say that strawberry shouldnt confront this guy?!?! jesus christ! are u guys from some village in india?!? and sorry to say the pw isnt even the issue here. the issue is that shes found emails in her fiances inbox/outbox that may prove that hes cheating on her.
thank you redvelvet for giving her such great advice. and the others who said the opposite bs, should be ashamed of themselves cuz their advice is disgusting and horrific.
my friend went thru a similar situation. she wasnt engaged, she was going out with a guy for 3 yrs, the guy never gave her his email pws. one day, she was over at his place, and the guy went to take a shower and left his aim and msn signed on and was receiving messages from girls. then she went thru his inbox which was also left signed on and saw emails. she confronted him about it and he said that he used to like the girl (they were talking about one girl in particular) but that there is nothing going on anymore. after 3 yrs of lies they finally broke up, somehow my friend got in touch with that girl and found out that at the same time the guy was pursuing my friend, he was trying to hook up with the other girl as well.
im not saying that ur fiance is cheating on you, but u dont wanna let something like this go unnoticed. speak to ur mom and speak to ur fiance. if u feel that hes not being entirely honest/truthful and sincere with u, u need to break the engagement. u said u already gave him a chance before, hope u have heard of this saying,
"fool me once, shame on u. fool me twice, shame on me."
if some guy has been caught trying to talk to other girls twice, i think at this point u should know to break the engagement. obviously he cant be trusted for the rest of ur life. its extremely easy to break an engagement compared to a divorce after wedding. good luck!