my fiance is cheating on me??

Sara516 · February 16, 2009, 9:24pm

Woah, thanks for usually agreeing with my posts - because I have this God gifted ability to piss people off, mostly unintentionally.

Yea that must have left a bad taste. In that case the guy certainly is to blame, he shouldnt have agreed to this relationship if he wasnt over the previous one. My point was, boys do this kind of crap - it was extreme in your case though. This is what differenciates boys from men. Boys (and girls) have these little meaningless flings, ideally they grow out of them once they are in a serious relationship. Exceptions are always there, people cheat on their partners. This is not just a guy thing, many women are twisted that way.
Another point that I wanted to make was, everybody has their personal space which should be respected. Be that the wife or the husband. Some people have this bad habit of poking their noses into their partners’ personal stuff - email, diaries or whatever. If you dont trust the person enough, there is no point in getting into a serious relationship. Those who actually have to cheat on their partners, they mostly arent stupid enough to leave traces - esp emails.

ur such a clever one Animal