srry i cant reply ur PM cuz i dun have enough post but i will wen i do have em!
am i making this into a big deal!?? i feel horrible for checking it and finding it out.. if i do talk to him he will think "i shud have never gave it to u". i dont any1 to look down upon him even if im not wit him. i never thought he wud be like dis.. am i being very "skacky (suspicious)" girl?
belive me one side of me tells me to let it go.. every guyy does dis and i probably wunt find any1 better than him?
iduno if i shud make myself belive this and get hurt later on when im actully married nd impossible for me to get out.
i made a mistake telling my mom nd she went all crazy telling me dat i am a bad person for trying find out abt all of this nd wants to tell my dad but im not ready yet.. i need to talk to him first but it scares me of what he will say..?
Strawberry it really doesn't matter how you found out. Seriously. That is a minor issue that can be discussed in another thread at another time. What you need to do now is make a decision, based on what YOU KNOW about him NOW, regardless of how you found out! Do you really want to live with a womanizer? In the end the decision is yours, not you parents. YOU are going to be living with him, NOT your parents.
And no, every guy does not do that! Only guys who cheat/flirt say that. Like in every thing else...liars think everyone lies, cheaters think everyone cheat, and so on.