But in order to find out his explanation..........you have to TALK to him!
And in your situation.......it seems (not 100% sure yet) that you've caught him fooling around on you. Did you have doubts about this before hand? Is that why you wanted to see his password? In this situation, maybe your suspicions were not unfounded. BUT in future, you have to trust people a bit more. Not everyone who wishes to keep their password to themselves is cheating. I'm not doing anything wrong in my email accounts.....but I consider emails to my closest female friends private......and I like my privacy......doesn't necessarily mean that I'm up to no good. I just may not feel comfortable with the idea of someone poring over my emails and reading my every single thought no matter how benign it might be. Also, keep in mind that trust issues and insecurity can turn the other person off and and away from you.
But as I said....in your case, your suspicions might not be unfounded. In other words, the could be valid. But TALK to him first.
how can i talk to me? i cant even go INFRONT of him. hes in pakistan. i know if i talk to him.. he will make up some story and i will melt nd let it go like i have before! what made me ask him? well in the begging of the realationship i found abt some orkut acct nd where he was talking to random grls .. like literally making the effort to talk to them. i asked him nd he sed he wunt do it again nd i let it go! well here than i wud check his account and saw it countinued nd he made some story that she went to his hs nd he decided to cancel the account so we wont have any problems. i let it go again..
should i talk still talk to him first? ughhh i hate dis feeling.. im so scared!