My experience with a divorced lady.

[lambo5688]

Re: My experience with a divorced lady.

@EDAL

OK now I see what the problem is, I am getting all replies from women. Listen, I appreciate your input, but I would like some men to respond.
you will always just side with the girl.

So many people without knowing anything, are already taking the side of my ex. LOL, you people have no idea the depths I went to care for her. Think about it, she got divorced 2 bloody times? Are both guys wrong? And now in Pakistan, **you don’t even want to know what she is going through, toba toba. Her own brother apologized to me!!! **It pains me because some part of me still cares for her, but I know it was her own doing. No one to blame but herself.

She was Nashukri, plain and simple. She treated her first husband like crap, and then she got a 2nd husband who spent money on her cared for her , did everything a loving husband does, and still she was nashukri,** not to me but to ALLAH, cause Allah was providing her all those things, not me**. Allah knows what was in my heart for her, so I have no reason to feel guilty. I feel so sorry for her

Hey, maybe you just got a fruit of your labor. Maybe Allah(swt) was rewarding you for all those white chicks you banged.

Alhamdulillah its great that you decided to follow the sunnah of the Prophet(pbuh) but it does seem like you decided to change your ideology just in time of you getting married.

And no bro, having sex just because you live in the West is not a rite of passage. If you had self control and the fear of God you would not be needing to make excuses right now for your actions.