My experience with a divorced lady.

lahori99 · September 17, 2010, 2:19am

Re: My experience with a divorced lady.

I’m surprised at all focus on “divorced” and “virgin” women!

Just b/c a woman has never been married, that doesn’t mean she’s a virgin (especially these days!). A woman who has “been around” is not stupid. If her family is conservative and she is presented with a potential rishta that actually asks her if she is a virgin, does anyone here honestly believe that she’ll admit to not being a virgin?!

Heck the OP has no “proof” that his 19-year-old naive shy bride has never been physical with a man. He may assume that b/c she seems inexperienced but in reality, how difficult would it be for a woman to PRETEND to be inexperienced? He may have even asked her and she may have said that she’s a virgin…but once again, no actual proof.

And just b/c a woman is not a virgin, that doesn’t mean she did it on purpose…she could’ve been raped or even sexually abused as a child.

saying all this from your own personal dating experience?