Re: My experience with a divorced lady.
his excuse for divorce that she was badtameez and used to say things llike “tum sab mard” is just sooo stupid ! those things can really be dealt with by proper counseling or involvement of a 3rd party. I also wonder what you and your family did to make her say things like that ? If you really wanted to keep your marriage you could have just given her a warning by giving 1 talaaq . Many many muftis and islamic scholar suggest this and guide people to use divorce as the LAST RESORT. You treat women like commodities. Just remember that Allah ki lathi bari be awaz hoti hai jab parti hai patta tab lagta hai !