Re: My experience with a divorced lady.
Why is everyone picking on my poor wife? You think I would marry again without doing in depth research, and CIA style background security check? LOL, actually the best families to often go for marriage are those you have known for years and trust. Where you have seen how they raise and treat their daughters.
Is it so hard to believe there are smart pretty college educated Muslim American girls who guard their chastity and purity. I can tell you there are many such sisters , and I always had so much respect for them. They would never give any boy the time of day, shun shameful music/movies, wear hijab, and are also educated. Now that is a wife, that is a mother. In fact, there are some amazingly strong Muslim families in America. Esp in Texas. My wife comes from a very educated family. However her father is an imam/sheikh type of guy. Since he had all daughters he was very very strict, making them observe purdah and stuff.