This all happened as I said in 2009, so its still on my mind. My ex contacted me 3 days ago and was begging me to take her back, “Ahmed Im sorry im sorry etc.. etcc”" I told her I was remarried and to never call me again, she even said she’ll live as a 2nd wife. Not that I would consider that, but my imam here told me its not possible, since I wrote Talaq 3 times on a paper.