when u post something like this abt ur self or ur kids or a friend of urs ,it should be clear in ur mind that U R GOING TO BE JUDGED n since in both of ur posts asked for advice n suggestions ,u got both neutral and bitter comments
if now u feel that u dont need to do something abt it then plz edit ur original post n put a note there
secondly no matter what ppl say or what ur daughters r doing ,U NEED TO TALK TO THEM not because of the journals or cousin crushes but because they r at a v critical stage so plz talk to them ,be their best friend ,tell them what the relligion says n what u expect of them …im really scraed of pre-teen n teenage stage for my daughter …may Allah have mercy on all of us i wish u best of luk …