My daughter fancies her second cousin.

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Re: My daughter fancies her second cousin.

@firenze

Submission is the key and your only way out. On the contrary i am fully align with your views in this thread.

The lady needs to correct her parenting style, it’s not normal to fantasizing rapist boy friends or my sexy & hot cousin. Too all the women who are supporting this, please have a coffee if you were doing something wrong in your preteen years it doesn’t mean it was right.

So having feelings for the opposite sex is seen as ‘wrong’? Are you saying you never, ever had a crush on a member of the opposite sex (sorry I don’t know if you’re male or female) These feelings are entirely normal, I have the most wonderful parents and yet I still had feelings for my cousin who is like 15 years older then me but that’s all it was, a crush!

And more to the point, in the other thread I started about my other daughter who is 12 who is obsessed with Justin Bieber, I said she escaped from her would-be-rapist boyfriend. If my daughter is in love with a pop star, it does NOT make me a bad parent nor does it mean that I am neglecting her *tarbiyyat. *These things are WRONG they are a natural part of growing up.