Mabrook
September 4, 2010, 7:53pm
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Re: My dads new wife…help.
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If you guys have come across an insecure/jealous person, particularly if its the ‘other’ wife, you will realize that they are not the type that care too much about bonding, or accepting the other family. Their mind is fixed on one thing - to separate the hubby from his previous family.
**Note: Its a classic mentality of the insecure wife, and no amount of cleaning/cooking/slavery stops them from criticizing/hurting/abusing just for the sake of it…because at the end of the day, she doesn’t want them there. If she had an open mind, you would not see this type of behaviour in her.
and how do u know? are u that “second wife”? these are just assumptions and myths. people come in all shapes and forms .step kids can be equally manipulating. they take advantage of this situation too and play"i’m the victim" game too.
Girliee seems somewhat vulnerable and hence an easy prey…why do you think her step mum behaves that way when she is mostly alone? Its not too hard to understand.
In order not to ruin her self esteem (and her relationship), i would advise her to get her dad on board, even if its to lay the down the law to both, because the longer she leaves it, the more resentment will build up, and maybe not now, but eventually, it will either separate the kids from their dad (which is already starting to happen) or it will all come out head on…and that will definitely not be a good sight .
and who says talking won’t separate her from her dad in the long run. what if after several fights dad picks peace of mind and prefer new wife over kids?
read this for a change…
http://drphil.com/articles/article/310/