^hmmm. But since she is interested in a non-desi guy who is also interested in her, this may not apply. Really, in the non-desi world, the average age of a new mother is mid thirties and its pretty common for LATE thirties to have the first child. There are a few first time mothers who are near age 50 these days too! Not that I'd particularly recommend waiting THAT long....but heck, motherhood does not HAVE to begin at age 20 anymore.
That's fine. More and more desi guys, let alone non-desi, are okay with woman with full time careers (indeed, that's what I want too).
HOWEVER, the geographic mobility that comes with a diplomatic career can be devastating to the diplomat's spouse's own career.