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There is an authentic Hadith of our our Holy Prophet(S.A.W) that whenever a "Na-Mehram"(not related to each other with in Prohibited Degree) Man and Woman are alone with each other there is always Satan between them(accompanying them as third person).
the wisdom behind the Holy saying is evident to all.
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butt grabbing? butt grabbing? seriously that was a point where i would've gotten rid of the friend? unless you are a serial butt grabber this is plain idiotic of her to ssay i to you.
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Well whatever the case .. this thread has gone from being helpful to insulting. It's hard for me to believe that a bunch of educated people, not living in backward socities can actually think this way and be this narrow minded! Judging someone's character without knowing them personally is the sadest thing anyone can do! I'm sure there are many hadiths on that too! Also I would like to say that I was not behind locked doors with him and wasnt sneaking behind anyone's back. My tv lounge is right outside my room and the door was wide open and did anyone consider the reason I stayed back was cause I thought of him as a brother because he's married the one of the most important person in my life???
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Don't worry kapracrazy, girls will allways be the ones to blame, I have 2 stories of my friend's husbands whom I thought were my brothers to but am reluctant to tell as who will get the blame ME the female.
Thank God I was mature enough to see the signals and kept my distance from those scamps.
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Hey Saadia, yeah believe me .. I learned the hard way .. this was my first experience with a married couple as in before this there were no married people in my circle... but maaaan I cant believe some of the things people have said!! Someone here actually had the nerve to say that I'm attracted to boys and something of that sort when what I actually said was that I normally get along with guys cause of my nature, not cause I like sleeping around being a ho. Thanks for the refreshing post though!
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hey kapracrazy,
dont worry abt ppls comments, u must have known tha fact tha " jitnay Munh, utni baaten" just leave these sick minds wth their sick comments. it shuldnt cuts no ice wth ya.
just think positive abt urself, u know urself very well, if u r satisfied wth ur character n all thats enough, just turn a deaf ear to the ppl who r blaming u
sick minds blames females for no reasons
Gud Luck!!!
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oh kapracrazy ignore the rude comments made on here by ppl who are narrow minded and can only think of everythin being the girls fault.
i think ur friend is goin through alot of emotions at the moment, to find out that ur husband is like that is hard to digest, especially infront of a friend, its embarassing for her, so dont take it to heart about they way she has been with u, cos u cant expect any other way.
stay back and just let things calm down. dont try to intervene to explain urself, cos u will come out lookin worse. he seems like a crafty guy who knows how to play the game and she will eventually see for herself. give it time and let it solve itself.
good luck and keep us posted.
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yeah i agree.people are actually pathetic.here you are talking about a real problem and people are expecting a confession from you.wow.men are idiots.
^guys always support guys and bail them out of any situation! They can very well imagine themselves being in that situation… LOSERS 
Hey Saadia, yeah believe me .. I learned the hard way .. this was my first experience with a married couple as in before this there were no married people in my circle... but maaaan I cant believe some of the things people have said!! Someone here actually had the nerve to say that I'm attracted to boys and something of that sort when what I actually said was that I normally get along with guys cause of my nature, not cause I like sleeping around being a ho. Thanks for the refreshing post though!
Hey do not worry about it. It was not your fault. As you said this is the first married couple in your group also the guy was a creep (generally decent guys will not do this). I know this will sound strange but generally you can see the creeps coming, but sometimes you cant. don't beat yourself about it and just get on with life knowing you did the right thing.
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you poor girl, that must have been traumatising. pray for your friend.
after analyzing the history, I honestly think her husband is trying to get with you because his wife is his best friend's ex girl friend. So, he either wants to get back at her by doing something with her best friend. I dont know but that's how I see it. What to do? as everyone advised - stay away from both of them.
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yuppp .. staying away from them people!!
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^ Smart girl.
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KAPRA KRAZY, first of all i dont understand that if your friend was so close to u she still believed what her EVIL husband said and did not even give you a chance to explain, secondly just as everyone else said cut all ties as this will only get worse and make sure u give a piece of your mind to both idiots.
Lastly ppl plz dont judge anyone`s character cuz no one has give you a right to do that specially DIWANA jee, man thats no way an educated man from a decent background talks about a woman, Give respect take repect.
Please guys kisi key upar keechar nahi uchhalnee chahiye.
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What a pervert of a man! Needs more of butt whooping then the lame butt grabbing..Such a KK...And do tell your friend that she married a perv...and that she should sleep with one eye open.
And all of this reminds me of this engagement party we friends were attending of a very close friend and her fiance was such a guy who really gives a person the creeps...yuck!!
Keep your distance from him!
Meet your friend when he is not home.Don't stop meeting her, she may need you the most at this time...but remember only wen he is not there.leave as soon as he may come home.
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Sometimes we may just go on with the flow and see things from our angle but at the same time do not realize what could result from our actions.
No ill-intentions, just stated what was perceived by others from the story as well.
No need to single me out. The posts 22, 32, 33, 34, 37, 41 and 42 had same or similar questions/reactions comments to the story.
Avoiding these situation with someone who might have problem is best course of action.
I read your posts. Thanks for sharing.
Let me ask one question. Why you did not forcefully, angrilly or firmly told this man what he should not do.
You mentioned your attraction for men for a long time. Which is alright more power to you.:)
But why ask people what to do? I mean are you not sure?
Someone taking time to write the story and showing that someone who is husband of her best friend attracted to her is kinda wierd.
Just find a man for you and he will fight for and protect you.
Why hang around with married couple specially in situations where the man could get you alone?
Do you want to admit something here?
what are you implying here? kapra crazy just gets along with males more than she does with females...that doesn't mean she's attracted to them. also, she's just asking for advice because she cares about her friend.
Oh and you know about my character? People like you should burn in hell!
well if someone especially doesnt have a 'great reputation' and is found/seen alone with a man then y shouldnt he take advantage of that. not that im in support of such acts and/or think that its rite. but thats just the way things are. just WHY would a female be alone with a male, especially knowing that male is nt a nice person at heart.