My baby's 1st b-day

Re: My baby’s 1st b-day

Um, here:

Does it make you happy to see that she had previously mentioned it and isn’t just making it up to justify her anger at her FIL’s actions?

You seem to want to prove that the FIL’s actions are okay and that it’s all in jest and therefore should be acceptable. It’s not. Our elders are capable of making mistakes and we have a right to tell them what we will or will not accept for our children.