My baby's 1st b-day

[Chameli420]

Re: My baby’s 1st b-day

@devilish_angel

i may sound harsh or rude whatever but here it is…

there is a lady in my family some how due to some problems his huby n bro had a big big fight n tht lady was stopped from seeing his brother she agreed since his bro was at fault. anyhow years later, their other siblings’s child was getting married n thn there was whole issue who will attend the wedding since both dont want to c eachother, n finally the lady took a step n she said she l come wth her kids but huby will not come in order to avoid any bad thing on wedding.

so the conclusion is have a party n if ur FIL thinks tht MIL will create a mess ask him to come alone dont bring his wife,if single person is causing a problem avoid him or her.
u cant simply escape this things bc in future when ur kids will be getting married of course u will celebrate u cant avoid or cancel or whatever the wedding just bc ur MIL creates fuss.

If I have a big party and all my friends and my family comes but my MIL isnt there literally EVERYONE will ask me why daddi sahiba hasnt come and those who dont know about her behaviour will get to know by those already know about it. I dont want family dynamics to be so visible to everyone so I really am frustrated

also during this postI have realized other issues with reg to FIL and my own issues of not being able to take a stand. Due to extreme fatigue in the first 10 months of motherhood some of the parenting have been outsourced to FIL unconciously. Thank you GS members for your feedback!its time to get my life back!!!