Re: My 13 year old daughter wants to go for a sleepover.
The thing is, I was never invited to sleepovers at that age. I was told that this was and still is, an English/American custom that kids do as part of growing up. They need their circle of friends and should be given some independance. I don’t agree. You don’t need to send your pubescent daughter to an English girl’s home for a sleepover just to blend in with her circle and get some freedom/independence.
I have explained that eating and drinking from a kafir’s house, especially where there is dirty meat, probably** loose immoral talk and chit chat amongst the adults** there is not a good environment for my daughter. I don’t think that English people have the best regard to personal hygiene when using the toilets and it is with these hands that they touch everything. I have brought up my kids to keep themselves ‘paak’. Being in school, this is not always possible.
Weren’t you the one complaining about people judging you because you found your daughter was writing about some fantasy boyfriends? How is your narrow view of people any better than these people?
Hypocritical much?