Re: Mutah [temporary marriage] in the time of Amir ul Momineen Ali ibn Abi Talib
I think these website accounts should not be taken too seriously as there is high chances of fabrication. It would be more interesting for us if you could share your personal interaction with folks who tested such an arrangement (the iraqi folks you mentioned). For instance how they approach this idea ? How some guy can propose this idea to a decent msulim girl ? I mean even if she believes that this arrangement is allowed in her interpretation of religion ? :konfused:
You have rightly pointed out a serious issue which young muslim face these days. Dating, relationship woes. No matter how frowned upon they might be but it is very very common among muslim youth. Whether living in the west or in Pakistan or anywhere else.
Pinks - Okey, I know that mutah is not allowed in sunni Islam at all. But the problem i mentioned above is still very much present in muslim youth. And there seems to be no way out… how do you concur ?
I personally know some people who desperately ‘need’ to get married. And there is no apparent hinderance just that abhi unka number nahi aya.
There is another psychological aspect of pre-nuptual relationship in my opinion which is emotional baggage. You like some person, you get involved in a relationship dreaming that it would be long term, but one fine day it ends abruptly.
Just like you are living at a rented place for some years and one fine day landlord asks you to leave. As compared to going for a one year contract