agree, both sides must be decent enough to at least let the party know they’re not interested.
Secondly, this makes it seem that everything depends on that photograph. Anything else doesn’t matter. The guy/girl has to be movie-star looking.
Otherwise its a rejection right away. Even if it could’ve been a good match, but no s/he has to look like a filmstar like in a dreamworld.
Other option left is to go to Pakistan, where this photo thing doesn’t really matter and things can be done more traditionally and with more ease.