Re: mujhe choti wali pasand hai!!
As alreayd Sehrysh has cleared my point that bari wali is self conscious and little bit scared because she is the one who could be rejected or accepted by you. Choti wali is all friendly and talkative because she is seeing you as her propective JIJU. Another reason could be that younger ones are more fun loving and bubbly type generally. The reason is that elder ones have pressure from their family to behave in certain way to be an example for younger ones (in some families) so they have sober personality.
AS far as numerical order is concerned, it irritates me as well when i see in some families that they don’t prefer to marry their younger daughters first. In my own family my elder sister got more proposals then eldest one so she got married first. My eldest sister was very cool and encouraging about this matter. She didn’t complain. My mother didn’t think “Log kia kahein gaye”. She said “jis ka acha rishta araha hai us ki ker dena aqalmandi hai” In fact I have seen in some families where people don’t wait for eldest one to get married first and after years of wait they realize that now their younger daughters has no more good rishtas as well and at that time they repent their decision. Parents should consider good proposal either it is for younger one or eldest one.
But it becomes awkward when people come to see bari wali and like choti wali. Have you ever thought about the rejected one’s feeling. how will she feel? she can lose her self confidence and become more self conscious. Who knows before you how many times she has been rejected by people who likes her younger sister and that’s why she is so self conscious. If you felt her pain you would not complain about this. No wonder people hide their younger daughters when proposal comes for elder ones.