mujhe choti wali pasand hai!!

[Amoureux_de_la_vie]

Re: mujhe choti wali pasand hai!!

@HotTea

Sure, that might be a reason, but how can I tell for sure? I don’t think the family will allow me to “date” their daughter for me to find out if she was just being self-conscious. I just have to keep it simple and work with what I see. Now there have also been couple of instances, when the girl seemed very responsive and confident. **I feel whatever your true personality is, it will come across when I initally meet the girl. **

Agreed. There are certain educational backgrounds that I would prefer my spouse to have.

That’s a good idea on approaching them later. I also agree that it is a bit insensitive to ask for the “younger” daughter. That being said, I feel that we are grown-ups, so our feelings shouldn’t get hurt just because someone may not happen to like us! I guess that just comes with maturity.

Ok, dude, first of all, you are not all that mature either. You know you won’t be allowed to date their daughter, so why are you complaining? If you would rather date, then go DATE and not be an a**hole towards people who invite you to their place so that they can [possibly] invite you to their lives.

If you were all that mature as you think the older sisters should be, you would know a little about human beings. You would try to learn about how it feels when a girl gets a rishta. At the very least, you would try to respect her and not judge her based on her natural situational nervousness. You would understand that it is hurtful when you’re rejected for someone else (even if it’s your sister) and make sure you approach the situation in the least hurtful manner. You have failed at all of those.

I would suggest you work on your maturity before you point fingers at others :). And specially do so before getting married. Please.