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Why did I choose him?
It's quite simple actually, it all boils down to ONE thing...CHARACTER.
99.9% of people I have come across in my life do not possess this quality (this includes my own friends and relatives), but he does.
That and also the fact that we really "click" and have great chemistry.
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^ The 'click' is soooo important.
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In most of the cases it is a major risk and you can not control that. The best you can do is, manage the risk properly and cautiously, make an educated guess based on that person's dealing with others. Character is what matters the most, other things are secondary.
Unless you have known someone for a LONG time, there always is a risk of them pretending to be what they are not - and that applies to women as well as men.
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How do you know he's the right one? Sneak a peek at his bank balance, then you will know... ;)
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RupayHalwa, I know you mean that in a funny way... but even tough... That also doesn´t say everything his $$$ or bank balance. What if most of that part is destined for paying his monthly expenses (house, car, etc etc you name it).
Choosing a life partner is in ANY case a risk... Managing the right way is the best option.
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u goota watch how they treat all type of people around them for a true sense of thier personality.
-especialy the people whom they dont need to be fake infront of
RupayHalwa, I know you mean that in a funny way... but even tough... That also doesn´t say everything his $$$ or bank balance. What if most of that part is destined for paying his monthly expenses (house, car, etc etc you name it). Choosing a life partner is in ANY case a risk... Managing the right way is the best option.
Yeah, I was joking.
u goota watch how they treat all type of people around them for a true sense of thier personality.
-especialy the people whom they dont need to be fake infront of
very much agree. i was going to write something along the same lines but i can never be so concise.
and vice versa. he got to see me be a crazy, bossy older sister and giving people what for and it didn't turn him off.
So My Question to those who had the opportunity to choose their own partners , what made you decide that he/she was THE ONE ?
She waited in a line outside a Best Buy on a day with heavy snowfall just so that she could buy herself a Wiii, because she had heard they would be getting a shipment in that morning.
That is the kind of dedication to video gaming that screams out that a girl is The One For Me.
So My Question to those who had the opportunity to choose their own partners , what made you decide that he/she was THE ONE ?
I don't believe in "THE ONE" theory. That there is only ONE person that is meant for us deal.
I did have an oppurtunity to choose my partner and attributes like attractiveness, having the same sense of humor, overall common sense of values played a part.
But honestly it's a gamble because everyone changes with time and so does your needs from your partner. What you want in your 20s is not what you are looking for in your 30s and so on.
It really important to pray that the decision that you have made is the right one that Allah blesses the relatioship with love and caring for each other.
Madddyyyyyyyyyyyy U GEEK 
That is wat nailed it 
U knoe knowing U , I would believe it too…
Any other “such” clues people ???
She waited in a line outside a Best Buy on a day with heavy snowfall just so that she could buy herself a Wiii, because she had heard they would be getting a shipment in that morning.
That is the kind of dedication to video gaming that screams out that a girl is The One For Me.
lol. i queued outside virgin megastore for aaaages to meet shigeru miyamoto :D
first ever public appearance in europe :D:D
i thought i would want a husband who is (was) as hardcore as me but that didn't even end up coming into question. it did make me very happy though, when i found out that he secretly was very good at gaming and he's nurtured that side of himself for me :)
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so from the posts here…i’m supposed to choose “THE ONE” by his dedication to gaming 
Gaming is important.
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^ hehe. yea... make sure he's not TOO dedicated. even though i'm the 'gamer' i can put it down as soon as it's hubby time. but even sometimes not even my glare of death will get him up from the 360!
No. From here you see that if YOU are the game he wants, then he is the man!
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^ yeah wat he said 
Gaming is important.
On a scale of 1 to 10 ???
^ hehe. yea... make sure he's not TOO dedicated. even though i'm the 'gamer' i can put it down as soon as it's hubby time. but even sometimes not even my glare of death will get him up from the 360!
I thought all addictions / obsessions are not good !
:D
No. From here you see that if YOU are the game he wants, then he is the man!
And how would I know i'm being "hunted" ????
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^ Men are always the hunters, and should always be 'allowed' to wear the pants in the house.
im nt quite sure theres more thn ONE thing:wink: