im back:
lt me add my 2 cents to this important topic:
I hate to say this But, and im not forcing or undermining anyone, nor think im better than anyone but:
The Root of these problems occur to the increased and widespread emancipation of womens freedom, especially pakistani muslims freedom:
Females by nature are created, soft, caring, nurturing, trusting, and influenceble.\
Their nature is inclined such to think more from the heart than the brain, compared to men.
When some guy repeatdly tries after them and 'demonstrates' all the kind of qualities the nature of girl desires/needs. Girl decide eventually become less rational and feel sympathetic, once they feel the emotional of sympathy thier gurards automatically loosen, and they become open, before they know it one emotion leads to another before they know it theyve helped the guy penetrate too many emotions.
And Especially if the guys an expert in female pyschology, he wud smartly take one step at time, with each step piercing further thru your shield of modesty, till he gets into your heart.
And thats when your trapped into lieking him. Someitmes its too late when you know it.
Me Not saying here, girls r cheap or stupid. Me saying here the nature is of such which prefers to be nice to people than rude.
And this nature cant be changed. Thats why its inappropriate for girls to be so 'broad-minded' and open mixing with oposite sex as today.
The only way humanity and in this case girls can avoid social problems is by sticking to best advised guidelnes for humanity, from the best os advisros and teachers, our beloved Prophet's (pbuh) sunnat. The sunnat shows instructs us the following:
The only way girls can overcome this hazard, is by keeping out of male company, (i.e: staying in the house always like in the olden times and do housework) or always being aware of themselves of thier inclinements and weaknesses if they are to be 'social'.
This awarenes is hijab.
Hijab=physcial dubatta, body cover **+ mental awarenss. **The mental or 'intention' half of hijab is what alot of seem to miss out or not understand.
Hijab, is the only best defence when out in the big world of us men=monsters.
U cannot fish the good men from the bad, and even the good can turn bad somtimes because of our God given sexual, procreative, weak nature. Thats why its best and safest to be prepared by maintaining and always being aware of hijab.
The head-scarf conceals the hair, which is the main aspect fo female beauty, so thats an apparent and immediate benefit of hijab.
It is much less likely when you r in proper headscarf you will get approached my any man for your beauty.
When you are not you are always at risk.
Any guy cud get attacted, even someone as shareef as P.M Or Me or Jaanwaar.
But Do remember hijab is not only a phycical cover, *it is also the restraint and self-awareness of the intellect. *
But Having the physcial cover i.e performing the action, makes it easier to perform the intention i.e awareness mindset.
Many mis-interpret that, this Hijab/constant Awarenss is for degradation or supression of womens rights.
But people dont undertand the truth which which is that it is SOLEY for the benefit and protection of Womens rights and THEIR BEST INTEREST which is their CHASTISITY.
Otherwise ofcourse yes its our mens hijab to lower our gazes, but ofcourse we dont do that.
And when we both dont watch ourelves, and worse comes to worse, whos LOSS IS IT?
WOMENS not MENS men =neveeeeereerr. Society Demands WOMEN to be chaste.
Sorry for the lecture.
I just had to.
As I feel sorry for u girls in this aspect. And i cant stand like the losers guys taking the bests girls thats why.
If a girl know what kind of principles and values she is looking in a guy - I can bet 80 percent of the time she can find the right guy.
