Okay now you are contradicting yourself.
Either equal or not equal. If the man needs to provide for the household then he gets to wear the pants, and make most of the decisions and be the boss.
If you want equal rights...then most decision making process will be a tie, there will be more problems.
If you want to wear the pants and on top of that you want the man to provide, you need help....haha!
How am I contradicting myself ????
I said men should be providers & women the nuturers , and that men & women are not born equal .
I said if difficulties occur than yes the woman should pitch in and help with earning the money.
I asked what one should think or do when one comes across men who decide they want to sit on their lazy bums n let the woman earn for them ??
I think i'm being quite consistent !