Re: Mr. & Ms Right
Amir...no worries, you are a very insightful and considerate person from what we can see here. When you live in the east, the considerations and conditions of purdah and modesty are vastly different from when you live in the west - you understand and accept this which is an admirable thing!
ok so back to the topic at hand...how to know whether you have met Mr or Ms "right"...
you share the same desires, wants and hopes for your future (as far as kiddies, how to educate and raise them, how many to have). You share many interests and even if there are un-shared interests, you find that interesting and want to know more. You admire everything about the person, you like them personally. You share views on family values ie., when and how often to visit in-laws (on both sides!) you care about what your partner's family thinks about you, you go to lengths to ensure that they accept you and vice-versa. In short, a relationship where at the start, each admires and respects the other and over the long term, truly cares and loves the other.
True love takes time for sure. But a solid and concrete foundation of understanding is really important...IMHO.