I knew i was asking for trouble posin like that:
Sorry what i meant was by: 'stayin indoors cookign and being housewife', was in correspondence to 1400 years ago, when women didnt need much to go out, resulting in lower social problems.
Todays day, i assert women do have a greater need to go out and be independant, to work, infact in certain cases women are encouraged to work.
and yes, i agree if you have not got atleast 50% of inner modesty and awareness of why you are wearing hijab, you might aswell not wear it.
Apart from the head-scarf being farz for girls, i do not think there is mcuh point in exposing outwardly extreme religiouness if your heart is nowhere near it.
I dont pray 5 times a day, if i kept a beard, i feel it would be hypocritical.
And yes i am more than well aquainted with the many saudi-but not-what the seem-hijaban types.
If i unintentionnaly offended any girl here i apologzie for that. I hope people who know me know that im not judgemental or of that type mindeset.
I more than agree with the fact there are many non-hijaban girls who are more pious than the hijaban counter-part.s
Piety comes first from the heart. The heart is indeed what is first looked in.
Thankuuuu