Sheynie...the best way to tell if someone is a good person or not is to see how he deals with people!
Look at his interactions with everyone...even the waiter at the restaurant. See what people in his past have to say about him...that is always an eye opener. See how he treats his parents and does he let them run his life or does he make his own decisions while keeping a great relationship with them? Good character is hard to come by so the ones who possess it are always going to stand out. Your gut will guide you in the right direction in the end.
And again, any man who always has ALL the right answers is one to be careful of.
Mr Right might not remember the outfit you wore when you first met or your favorite color, but he will hold your hair back when you're throwing up...he will take care of you when you are sick...he will say you're beautiful even when you feel the opposite.
Ur Right PSquared but if one thinks about asking ppl about him , then if its his friends ,don't they say birds of a feather flock together......
So should I judge him by the company he keeps and the common characteristics of said company since in the US sometimes one hangs with colleagues or friends but not necessarily indulges in their practices...........
And then there are always those who have everyone fooled , like they say U never really know a person till you lived with them , but then its invariably too late !!!!!!
And what if a person's personality is attractive and U seem to click with them , and are on the same wavelength but he isn't what U imagined a life partner to be or fulfills that idea in your mind of how you perceived ur partner to be , then what ?