Sheynie...the best way to tell if someone is a good person or not is to see how he deals with people!
Look at his interactions with everyone...even the waiter at the restaurant. See what people in his past have to say about him...that is always an eye opener. See how he treats his parents and does he let them run his life or does he make his own decisions while keeping a great relationship with them? Good character is hard to come by so the ones who possess it are always going to stand out. Your gut will guide you in the right direction in the end.
And again, any man who always has ALL the right answers is one to be careful of.
Mr Right might not remember the outfit you wore when you first met or your favorite color, but he will hold your hair back when you're throwing up...he will take care of you when you are sick...he will say you're beautiful even when you feel the opposite.
nicely written post. the last bit is especially true but unfortunately you can only find that out with time :)