And after all this, you STILL persisted in asking him what’s wrong and waiting for him? Just stop. Easier said than done, but don’t entertain romantic thoughts about him. He reminds me of your EX, only more aggressive. The last thing you need is to be in a friendship or relationship for that matter with someone who makes threats and has physically abusive tendencies (don’t forget that he DID push you). Try to move on, Alvena. It’ll be tough at first, but it’s not impossible because you don’t know him long enough to be so hung up over him. And needless to say, this guy and his drama can really affect your studies. It may not be of your parents’ funding, but it is YOUR money and you want to get the most out of it. That’s all that can be said. If there were any hope/light in this situation, more people would mentioned it in their posts. But it seems clear (from your story) that he’s not worth befriending even…move on sweetheart.